Paramour At The Phipps - Cocktail bar in San Antonio - 102 9th St Floor 4, USA

Great bar, very quaint and eccentric decor... I got my truck broken in to after being there for about an hour, so I would recommend don't park on the street near the dead-end. I'd also recommend the elevator if you don't want to climb the stairs to the 4th floor... But amazing staff; they're super friendly and hospitable. They also have great drinks/cocktails that you don't typically see elsewhere. 10/10 would recommend!

I should have known the billing was sketch when we asked for water and they served us bottled Figi water. They add a 20+ something % surcharge/tip and don’t make it apparent when you go to pay out. Be sure to ask for your itemized bill before you swipe your credit card. Our waiter made out nicely with a 45% tip. Well done! I am completely turned off by the lack of transparency (especially after reading your replies to similar reviews). Never again.

Went during drag brunch and the atmosphere was great, our waitress was great and the performers were incredible. However, when it came to food and seating accommodations it was really disappointing. We had reservations but when we arrived they didn’t have enough seating so we were seated in the back having to use a bench as a table.There was an “all you can eat brunch buffet” for $20 but all that was served was CHIPS (salsa already on the chips so they were soggy), scrambled eggs (which they ran out), French toast, potatoes and fruits. Did not seem fitting for the cost. Also if you rely on your performers to bring in the money to your establishment (because it wasn’t the food) at least have an ATM.

Well since you ask for a review, here was my experience on my 2nd visit to this establishment, arriving at 8:00 on a Saturday night, the experience was far from satisfactory. Despite a half-hour wait for our drinks, my beverage ended up spilled, and our second drink was left nearly untouched. As we left, assuming the tab was settled, we were chased down by our server, prioritizing payment over addressing the issues. Opting for Bar 1919 with a party of 6, we swiftly received well-crafted drinks like the "Without a Trace." The stark contrast between Paramour's prime downtown location and Bar 1919's lively atmosphere made me reconsider ever stepping foot in Paramour again.

We went to the Sunday morning drag bunch and it was a great time. The entire place is filled with couches and it’s just a nice and fun environment overall. - Be aware that it is a cash only bar. - Every performer will walk/dance around by everyone. - Everyone tips the dancers when they come by. - Great food and drinks. - Drinks start at $18 I believe it said. - I was worried about the dress code mentioned on the site, but at the brunch event they didn’t seem to have one? I was overdressed while other men were all in jeans or shorts with a T-shirt. - There was a lot of comedy and crowd engagement the whole time.

The brunch was really cool and the performers were absolutely fantastic. This review is of no reflection of the show. The bar charges a 20% mandatory large party tip on a table for 2? Alright. I was also charged a menu item I did not order. The food wasn't great. Finally, the service was very slow. Watch your tab when paying - it is almost like they are hoping you are too drunk to notice the extra charges. Sorry, just not worth the $224 tab for 2 people. Part of that was a sneaky $47 tip due to me not noticing the $35 tip automatically added to the bill. I would have tipped *maybe* 15% based on the quality of service. $35 was not earned and the extra money I paid on that tip was a flat out scam.

I read these reviews but not till I was already on my way. So if you are going to chill and relax and get some apps, this is the place. Drinks are about $16 so if you are not used to these prices, go during happy hour before 5pm. Our server did offer us water and I made sure to make sure it was not Fiji water but home thrown SA water lol and it was. I forgot the bartender’s name but he had gray eyes and did great!! It was a great time - going during a storm, less people. The avacado chips has endless chips for those on a budget. Expresso martini, for us older folks Was amazing! There is an elevator, but you know you need the exercise with a view.

Great location with super fun atmosphere. Food was good. Prices were high, but expected at this type of venue.